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The Governess: 14” Long-Handled Spanking Paddle

The Governess: 14” Long-Handled Spanking Paddle

Regular price $69.00 USD
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The Governess is an elegant long-handled spanking paddle with smooth rounded edges and a 3.5" spanking surface. This is .5" wider than our Cruel Mistress wooden-spoon style paddle. The extra surface area helps distribute the impact but still delivers a forceful and focused stroke.

The is ideal for all hand sizes. Experiment with your hand position to create different sensations and find your best fit. 

As with all LRS spanking toys, our Governess wooden spanking paddle features smooth, rounded edges and a silky smooth natural finish. 

International customers can purchase this item from our Etsy shop here.

Product Dimensions: 14” long x 3.5“ wide x .625” (5/8”) thick

How to Choose Your Wood

Choose your wood based on the sensation you hope to achieve. Every paddle will have some degree of sting. The heavier/more dense the wood, the more thuddy it will be. Contact us for recommendations or custom requests.

Limba (Tropical Western Africa) - a light and stingy wood with incredible variation in grain patterns. Limba is a light yellow/golden brown wood with gray and black streaks and veins that can make this wood look different from piece to piece, but thanks to its light weight, it carries a bright stingy smack with every impact.

Cherry (North America) - a well-balanced wood that brings sting and a nice, firm impact. This light/medium weight wood offers warm tones of caramel, pink, and gold. New to spanking? Cherry is a great choice for a first paddle because it is neither too light nor too heavy. It’s just right.

Walnut (North America) - a medium weight wood in shades of chocolate browns and toasty tans. Walnut is a fan favorite at LRS - it’s firm, stingy with a little thud, and builds quickly for that roasted rump sensation. .

Maple (North America) - a medium weight wood that will provide sting with some thud. Maple tends to be primarily a light cream color with straight grain lines and occasional darker flecks of sap. This sap is just like maple syrup - but you can’t taste it, so don’t try licking it! Fans love Maple for the firm but fair spirit it brings to spanking paddles.

Birch (North America) - a blonde & tan wood with medium/heavy weight and density. It’s heavier than our other domestic woods like Walnut and Maple, but not as heavy as most of our exotic woods. Birch brings a balanced blend of sting and thud.


  • Made to order
  • Shipping via USPS
  • Discreet Shipping - Return address is LRE, LLC, product cannot be identified while packaged
  • Returns are not accepted due to the intimate nature of these products
  • Please contact us immediately if you experience a problem with your order/shipment

Care Guide

If your paddle begins to look or feel dry, refresh the wood using furniture oil or wax. Apply according to the instructions and buff off using a soft cloth - an old tee shirt or inside-out sock will do. Suggested products: Walrus Oil Wood Wax, Howard's Feed-n-wax

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Always Handmade, Always For You

Making the paddle or strap that's perfect for you is what we do. Our paddlemaker Spencer crafts every piece by hand after your order is placed. Want to know more? Need help or want to make a custom request? Learn more About Us or Contact Us today!

Customer Reviews

Based on 10 reviews
Needed a customer service edit to my order...

Needed a customer service edit to my order and the team was very responsive and professional. 10/10 would highly recommend.

This is one of the nicest paddles I've see...

This is one of the nicest paddles I've seen. The wood literally feels like silk. The craftsmanship is excellent, and the lightweight wood is perfect for a strong sting. 11/10.

Customer service was so wonderful. This pa...

Customer service was so wonderful. This paddle is buttery soft and packs a punch. It's so beautiful. Thank you!

5 stars

5 stars - reviewer did not leave a comment

Super schnelle Lieferung, top Qualität, Pa...

Super schnelle Lieferung, top Qualität, Paddle liegt sehr gut in der Hand. Danke für das kleine Extra.